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Tuesday, August 04, 2009

'Posing macam ni ok tak Ayah?' - Of showering and sponging

I was so delighted to find out last Wednesday that the photo I sent to the Pa & Ma magazine is featured in the 'Mandi Manda' column of the August edition, that I showed the column to some of my colleagues.

The above photo which was edited due to space constraint of the column and to make way for other kids' photos, was selected as one of the lucky few to receive prizes. Don't you think the caption that I created to go along with the photo, 'Posing macam ni ok tak Ayah' (Am I posing correctly Ayah?) aptly describes the photo?

But my enthusiasm was cut short when at 4:20, the babysitter called me, telling me that Ikhwan had a fit due to fever. That explained why I had a bad feeling when I kissed him that morning. He was perfectly fine the night before, and still showed no indication of having a fever when my wife sent him over in the afternoon, before she went to work.

What freaked us out was the fact that the babysitter could have missed it (the fit). She too was not well and decided to sleep next to Ikhwan. She was awaken when she heard some funny noises coming from Ikhwan. Had she slept in the next room or she was too deep in her sleep? We shudder to think....

Another incident that shocked us was how she ran to a clinic across the road from her apartment building, I mean in her, possibly still drowsy condition (from just waking up and her sickness).

After the doctor had not fully successful in making his fit stopped, her husband who happened to be nearby, drove both of them to HUKM. For this, we really thanked her and husband for taking care of Ikhwan just like their own.

I arrived at the hospital just before 5 and immediately rushed to the Emergency Unit. No one seemed to be able to contact my wife. It must have been a hectic day (as usual) at the Kajang Hospital. Coincidentally, my parents-in-law were nearby the Kajang town and they decided to stop at the hospital to break the news to my wife.

My wife and parents-in-law only reached HUKM close to 9 o'clock that night. Ikhwan was cleared to go. For the first time, I took care of Ikhwan all on my own during the time when he needed a parent the most. All the while, it was my wife who stayed and spent nights at the hospital, tending for him. Those four hours of him hugging me and calling for me, would hopefully make our father-and-son bond much stronger, Insha' Allah.

Ikhwan is at the peak of being so active and so curious of trying and learning new stuffs. All of us are just amazed at his energy and bubbly nature. We just hope the fit won't ever happen again to him, Ikhwan Rasydan.... Aaaamiiinnnnn.....

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8 Comments:

At Friday, 07 August, 2009, Blogger Cosmic_GurL said...

Oh dear...thank god the babysitter was efficient and quick on her feet...hopefully ikhwan has recovered well...

 
At Friday, 14 August, 2009, Anonymous bella said...

Our doa for you and wife and Ikhwan, hope he will recover fast, and bless the babysitter for her fast reaction!thank God for that.btw, the pic is so cute!!!!hehehe

 
At Tuesday, 18 August, 2009, Anonymous pae said...

hmm wow..nasib baik babysitter tu cekap..hmm hopefully anak kau tkde apa2..coz aku kecik2 pun pernah kena fit ni..arwah mak aku ckp nasib baik tak tangkap otak

 
At Saturday, 22 August, 2009, Blogger The Pisces Man said...

Hi Cosmic_Gurl,

actually his fever lasted more than a week. Due to the outbreak, it scared us a bit and so, after bringing him to a private hospital a few days later, he was warded for a night. He fully recovered a few days after being discharged.

 
At Saturday, 22 August, 2009, Blogger The Pisces Man said...

TQ Bella for your doa'. Yeah, the photo is a gem, one of those that we really really like. Good that he's one of the lucky ones to win, although the magazine hasn't really contacted us about the prize. Hope they won't just keep quiet about it, huhu...

 
At Saturday, 22 August, 2009, Blogger The Pisces Man said...

Yeah Paie, itu yang kitaorg takut, in fact it's every parents' fear whether their children has histrories of fits or not before.

 
At Friday, 28 August, 2009, Blogger Mel Ija said...

I applaud the baby-sitter. You are lucky for having a baby-sitter who treats Ikhwan as her own. Not many working parents have the opportunity to receive such kindness. And the fact that she is also very quick-thinking. Alhamdulillah.. I hope Ikhwan is fine. Fits are quite dangerous for babies and toddlers. It could affect the brain and cause more hazard.

 
At Wednesday, 23 September, 2009, Anonymous Abdun said...

Yes, it's every working parents' dreams to have baby sitters / maids sent from the heaven above :-)

 

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